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Please indicate the degree of happiness, all things considered, of your relationship.
- Extremely Unhappy
- Fairly Unhappy
- A Little Unhappy
- Happy
- Very Happy
- Extremely Happy
- Perfect

Most people have disagreements in their relationships. Please indicate below the approximate extent of agreement or disagreement between you and your partner for each item on the following list.
Amount of time spent together
- Always Agree
- Almost Always Agree
- Occasionally Disagree
- Frequently Disagree
- Almost Always Disagree
- Always Disagree
Making major decisions
- Always Agree
- Almost Always Agree
- Occasionally Disagree
- Frequently Disagree
- Almost Always Disagree
- Always Disagree
Demonstrations of affection
- Always Agree
- Almost Always Agree
- Occasionally Disagree
- Frequently Disagree
- Almost Always Disagree
- Always Disagree

In general, how often do you think that things between you and your partner are going well?
- All the time
- Most of the time
- More often than not
- Occasionally
- Rarely
- Never
How often do you wish you hadn’t gotten into this relationship?
- All the time
- Most of the time
- More often than not
- Occasionally
- Rarely
- Never

I still feel a strong connection with my partner
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
If I had my life to live over, I would marry (or live with/date) the same person
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
Our relationship is strong
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I sometimes wonder if there is someone else out there for me
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I have a warm and comfortable relationship with my partner
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
My relationship with my partner makes me happy
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I can’t imagine ending my relationship with my partner
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I feel that I can confide in my partner about virtually anything
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I have had second thoughts about this relationship recently
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
For me, my partner is the perfect romantic partner
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I really feel like part of a team with my partner
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true
I cannot imagine another person making me as happy as my partner does
- Not at all true
- A little true
- Somewhat true
- Mostly true
- Almost completely true
- Completely true

How rewarding is your relationship with your partner?
- Not at all
- A little
- Somewhat
- Mostly
- Almost completely
- Completely
How well does your partner meet your needs?
- Not at all
- A little
- Somewhat
- Mostly
- Almost completely
- Completely
To what extent has your relationship met your original expectations?
- Not at all
- A little
- Somewhat
- Mostly
- Almost completely
- Completely
In general, how satisfied are you with your relationship?
- Not at all
- A little
- Somewhat
- Mostly
- Almost completely
- Completely

How good is your relationship compared to most?
- Worse than all others (Extremely bad)
- Better than all others (Extremely good)

Do you enjoy your partner’s company?
- Never
- Less than once a month
- Once or twice a month
- Once or twice a week
- Once a day
- More often
How often do you and your partner have fun together?
- Never
- Less than once a month
- Once or twice a month
- Once or twice a week
- Once a day
- More often

For each of the following items, select the answer that best describes how you feel about your relationship. Base your responses on your first impressions and immediate feelings about the item.
- Interesting
- Boring
- Bad
- Good
- Full
- Empty
- Lonely
- Friendly
- Sturdy
- Fragile
- Discouraging
- Hopeful
- Enjoyable
- Miserable
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