How often do your children attend church/Sunday School/AWANA/Youth group? What connections have you made in the community? Are your children involved in a play group, scouting or other activities offered on base? How are you encouraging spiritual development in your child? How are you helping your kids understand their spiritual responsibilities? What boundaries have you […]

What is the greatest challenge this deployment poses in regard to your relationship with your spouse and family? How do you plan to meet that challenge? How would you describe the general tone of your conversations with your spouse? If you could change one thing about your conversations with your spouse, what would it be? […]

When it comes to moving, how completely do you trust God to meet all your needs in the relocation process?  What do you not trust Him to do in this move? How willing are you to work on your faith and trust levels with God?  How could you grow in these areas? HoHowHowHow connected are […]

For those whose spouses are deployed: When your spouse is deployed, how often do you feel lonely or isolated? When do these feelings typically occur? How do you cope when you feel overwhelmed by loneliness? Tell me about your daily routine.  How well are you managing to keep the household running?  Are you taking care […]

How would you describe your current spiritual walk?  In what area(s) does it need strengthened?  How do you plan to make that happen? How often are you attending church?  What kind of regular fellowship are you having with other Christians? What are you doing to provide spiritual input for yourself?  How about spiritual training/input for […]

What communication habits have you established with your kids? How are you modeling godliness and integrity? Do you spend regular time with the Savior personally?  You can’t impart what you do not possess! Do you realize that as a parent you are a disciple maker?  Do you have a clear understanding of what a disciple […]

Are you aware that many people who commit adultery express surprise that it happened? What does that say about the danger of emotional attachments outside of marriage? Are you open to talking about setting healthy boundaries to protect your marriage? Do you ever tell yourself, “We’re just good friends,” but secretly long for something more? […]

Does your spouse have a relationship with Christ? Who besides yourself is aware of your spouse’s infidelity? Who is giving you advice about what to do now? What are they telling you? What do you think about what they are telling you? Do you think your spouse is genuinely repentant or just sorry for getting […]

How would you describe the difference between genuine remorse and just being sorry for getting caught? (2 Corinthians 7:10) If the tables were turned and your spouse had cheated on you, how long do you think it would take you to be able to trust again? How prepared are you to give your spouse significant […]

Have you examined your expectations about sex?  How realistic and fair are they? Is your spouse on medications that could help explain the lack of sex drive? Is it possible your spouse is siphoning off his/her desire for you in other areas (e.g. pornography, masturbation, workaholism, lust)?  Have you discussed that with him/her? The sexual state […]