Are you aware of the effects of unforgiveness?  Is there an area of unforgiveness that is blocking reconciliation? Have you repented of any wrongdoing, however small, and asked for forgiveness? Have you sought the help of a pastor or Christian counselor? Do you have children?  If so, have you considered how their lives will be […]

How has your approach to handling finances affected your marital oneness? Brought you together or driven you apart? Are you and your spouse in agreement or has there been conflict over money? What were your differences in this area? Do you live by a clear budget? If not, would you like some help in learning […]

Have you put your faith in Christ for salvation? Tell me about that time and what difference it has made in your life. Tell me about your view of forgiveness.  What does that look like in your mind? Have you ever looked at what the Bible says about forgiveness, and how important is that to […]

In what ways do you honor your husband and his leadership role in your marriage?  How does he respond? In what ways do you undermine your husband and his leadership role in your marriage?  How does he respond? What would you say are the main things that hold you back from submitting to your husband in your marriage? […]

What is your understanding of your God-given role as a wife? Would you be willing to look with me at what the Bible says about the important role of a wife in the family? Is your husband supportive of your God-given role in the family? Do you pray for your husband every day? What do […]

How is prayer a priority in your life personally?  In your marriage relationship? What, if anything, keeps you from feeling comfortable praying with your spouse? Are you waiting for your spouse to initiate prayer?  If so, why? Growing up what role models did you have for praying together as a couple?  If none, are you open to resources that […]

The Bible says a couple “leaves and cleaves” to start the new marriage. How have you been able to do that? Can you tell me about your relationships with both sets of in-laws? Are there any area specific areas of concern so far? Do you understand the essential roles of husbands and wives in marriage […]

How would your marriage be different if both of you chose to focus on what is good and right rather than what is bad and wrong? (Philippians 4:8; Ephesians 4:29-32) How can you help your spouse realize who he or she is in Christ? Do you love your spouse in a way that casts out […]

Have you taken time lately to share your true feelings with your spouse? Is there an area of bitterness from the past you’ve been harboring which is causing the isolation?  Would you consider voicing that and giving your spouse another opportunity to seek forgiveness? Are you waiting for your spouse to move toward you or […]

Are you open to reading helpful resources on manhood and discussing them with me? Does your behavior around your family engender respect or fear? God’s Word teaches that husbands are to be servant/leaders in their homes.  What do you think that means?  Which aspect do you feel you have the hardest time succeeding at—being a […]