Have you taken time lately to share your true feelings with your spouse?
Is there an area of bitterness from the past you’ve been harboring which is causing the isolation? Would you consider voicing that and giving your spouse another opportunity to seek forgiveness?
Are you waiting for your spouse to move toward you or are you willing to move toward him/her?
Would you say your marriage is one of openness and honesty, or are there things that are hidden and kept secret? Can you elaborate?
Can you surrender to God’s plan even if it means you will need to take responsibility and confess first?
Is your marriage full of speech that is honoring, or is there much criticism? Could you describe what that looks/feels like?
Are you connected to any other couples who can hold you accountable for marital growth?
What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?
