- How long have you been married?
- What are the main areas that initially drew you to your spouse?
- How are you and your spouse different?
- Tell me about your marriage so far. What’s your experience been like? What surprises have you encountered?
- What role models did the two of you have for marriage growing up? How are those models similar? How are they different?
- What would you like to imitate from your parents’ marriage? What would you like to do differently?
- What’s one small step you’d like to see taken in your marraige and how can I help encourage you in that?
