• The Bible says a couple “leaves and cleaves” to start the new marriage. How have you been able to do that?
  • Can you tell me about your relationships with both sets of in-laws? Are there any area specific areas of concern so far?
  • Do you understand the essential roles of husbands and wives in marriage according to the Bible? Can we discuss that?
  • Are there any specific areas of conflict that have arisen? How are the two of you handling those things together?
  • What can you tell me about the financial area of your marriage?  Do the two of you have a plan for the future?  Do you have a monthly budget that will help you reach your goals?
  • Have the two of you discussed children?  Are you on the same page or is that an area you’re still working through?
  • What surprising discoveries have you made so far?
  • Have you learned things about yourself that may have been a little uncomfortable to realize?  What are those?