- What is your understanding of the role of a husband? How do you think your spouse would answer that?
- What is your understanding of how that differs from the role of a wife? How do you think your spouse would answer that?
- What would you like to change about the way you and your spouse relate as husband and wife? What is currently keeping you from making those changes?
- What was your father like as a role model? In what ways have you as a husband imitated him or differed from him?
- What do you think the Bible means when it says the husband is to be the “head” of the home?
- Do you know any men who you consider good role models as husbands? What qualities do you see in them that you admire?
- Have you ever thought about asking those male role models any questions about their approach? What would you ask?
- Can you tell me a little about your relationship with God and how that influences your life as a man and as a husband?
- What is your plan for becoming a better husband? Are you reading any good books right now?
- How can I best help you right now as a mentor?
