• Are you open to reading helpful resources on manhood and discussing them with me?
  • Does your behavior around your family engender respect or fear?
  • God’s Word teaches that husbands are to be servant/leaders in their homes.  What do you think that means?  Which aspect do you feel you have the hardest time succeeding at—being a servant or being a leader?
  • What do you think keeps you from being a servant/leader?  What have you tried in the past to overcome this barrier?  Why do you think that effort fell short of the goal?
  • How would you summarize what spiritual leadership should look like by a husband?  How do you think you are doing in that area?  What barriers do you find get in your way of being the spiritual leader in your home?
  • Do you have accountability with other godly men?  How do you think having such accountability helps you (or would help you) in your role as husband?
  • How do you think you can be a servant leader in your home even if your wife is not accustomed to you having that role?