What is your understanding of the role of a wife and how that differs from the role of a husband? How do you think your husband would answer that question?
What kind of a model did you see growing up? In what ways have you as a wife imitated your mom and in what ways are you different?
What would you like to change about the way you and your husband relate as husband and wife? What keeps you from making that change?
What do you think the Bible means when it says the husband is to be the “head” of the home?
What do you think it means for a wife to be a helper? (Gen.2:18)
Do you know a woman who seems to be a good role model as a wife? What about her stands out? Have you ever sought wisdom from her?
Can you tell me a little about your relationship with God and how that influences your life as a woman and as a wife?