- What is your understanding of your God-given role as a wife?
- Would you be willing to look with me at what the Bible says about the important role of a wife in the family?
- Is your husband supportive of your God-given role in the family?
- Do you pray for your husband every day? What do you pray for him?
- Do you see your husband as the leader in your home? How does thinking of him in that way make you feel?
- What do you think the Bible means when it says the wife is to be submissive to her husband?
- Do you think that you are undermining your husband in any way? How so? And how would your husband answer that question?
- Do you give him space to think issues through before leading? What does it look like when he tries to lead? How do you respond to his leadership?
- Once you have discussed an issue, do you defer to your husband or try to get your way?
- Do you realize that your husband will be held accountable by God?
- Assuming your husband is not asking you to sin or break the law, what keeps you from doing what he asks of you?
- How do you show respect to your husband? Are there times when you fail to respect him by being critical or negative?
- I believe that your relationship with Jesus Christ is the most important relationship in your life. Can you tell me about that?
- Will you trust God to do His part as you do yours?
- Are you open to reading articles about being a godly wife and discussing them with me?
- What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?
