Think of a right choice your husband has made recently and praise him for it.
Good job reaching out for wisdom in you role as a wife
Read any of the online articles listed in this guide and let’s discuss.
Read any of the scriptures of help and hope in this guide and let’s discuss.
Remember that God has not only given wives the helper/lover role, He has promised to equip us for the job!
Remember that you are not alone if finding your role is a struggle. The wife’s role in today’s society is a great challenge.
Read through the Portrait of a Godly Wife, read the scriptures listed there, and let’s discuss those.
Always be willing to confess where you have fallen short and pray for strength to change
Show unconditional love and respect for your husband
You can lovingly align yourself behind your husband and trust God to teach your husband to lead over time
Remember Jesus as the perfect model of submission to His Father
Don’t wait for your husband to become a perfect leader before you follow him. He does not have to qualify for the role—God has given it to him and will hold him accountable.
Obedience means helping your husband be the leader in your home, and this is really obedience to God, not just your husband
Reach out for help by finding one or two other wives to meet with regularly for accountability
Be your husband’s cheerleader, praising him often, enthusiastically, and loudly
Remember that you are human and will never fulfill your role perfectly, but God will honor your efforts and will always forgive your times of failure
Discuss with your spouse how you see your roles divided. Then discuss how you each feel about that.
Talk about any changes you would like to make in your current roles.
