• What is your understanding of submission in marriage? How do you think your spouse would answer that question?
  • What is your understanding of how the husband and wife roles in marriage differ? How do you think your spouse would answer that question?
  • What would you like to change about the way you and your spouse relate as husband and wife? What keeps you from making that change?
  • What was your mother like? In what ways have you as a wife imitated her and in what ways are you different?
  • What do you think the Bible means when it says the husband is to be the “head” of the home?
  • What do you think it means for a wife to be a helper? (Gen.2:18)
  • Do you know a woman who seems to be a good role model as a wife? What makes this person come to mind? Have you ever sought wisdom from her?
  • What resources have you read on the subject of submission in marriage? How have those been helpful to you?