- How has anger impacted your relationship in the past?
- What do the angry outbursts look like and how do you respond? Do you respond back with more anger or do you tend to “stuff” it?
- How do you deal with anger personally? Do you explode or are you more subtle?
- What kinds of things trigger anger in your home?
- Are others around you aware of this anger or is it something that comes out only in private?
- Is there a time of day or a particular place you notice the anger occurring? What kind of patterns do you see?
- I believe that the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me about that?
- Does your spouse have a relationship with Christ?
- Are you aware of how God’s word speaks to issues of anger and conflict? Would you like to take a look at that together?
- Are you and/or your spouse active in a local church?
- Do you and your spouse ever pray together? Do the two of you know how to confess, repent, and forgive one another?
- What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?
