What are the major areas of disagreement or conflict in your marriage? What steps have you take to resolve those?
Have you counted the real costs of divorce—legal, financial, emotional, kids? I’d love to help you think through those issues if you would you be willing to take some time to do that. (see “Before Your Divorce” broadcast)
What are the major things you need to ask your spouse forgiveness for? Are you willing to do that?
What actions do you feel that your spouse needs to ask your forgiveness for? Have they shown a willingness to do that?
What do you consider to be the major barriers to reconciliation in your marriage? What needs to happen to begin to tear down those barriers? Are you open to working through those even if it means a significant time commitment?
How are your finances? Is financial stress a contributing factor in your marriage being in trouble? How so?
Are you involved in another relationship? Are you willing to give that up to restore your marriage? Why or why not?