- How long has it been since your marriage ended? How did it end (i.e. who filed for divorce, was it mutual, etc.)?
- What would you say were the things that led to your divorce? Have you taken time to prayerfully examine your part in that?
- What can you tell me about how you got to this current point in your life? Can we unpack that journey together?
- At this point in your life are you committed to following God’s will no matter what?
- Have you given reconciliation with your former spouse a chance? What did that process involve?
- Beyond talking to me about this, what steps have you taken to resolve your issues? Have you sought the help of a pastor or Christian counselor?
- What do you believe God wants for your children in all of this?
- What have you learned about yourself from your divorce?
- What problems are you still having with your ex-spouse that need to be resolved? Have the two of you at least moved back to a friendship level?
- What has been the most difficult part of being divorced? What has that looked like on a daily basis for you and how can I pray for you in that area?
- Do you pray for your former spouse?
- Is your desire now to remarry? Have you taken time to examine your motives for wanting that at this time?
- Remarriage is often more difficult than a first marriage. What counsel have you received about the issues you will face once remarried?
- How can I be an encouragement to you right now?
