If you could sit down with your former spouse and have a healthy, honest discussion about what went wrong, and seek forgiveness and healing, what would you say to them? Do you think God could ever arrange for that discussion to occur?
Do you have any ongoing regrets about the past that maybe we can prayerfully discuss together?
What would give God the most glory in your life now? What can you do to take a step in that direction?
If you are considering remarriage, what do you believe will be different this time around?
What have you learned about yourself from your past marriage (e.g. about your needs, feelings, goals, the way you handle stress, the way you handle another person’s anger)?
Without beating yourself up or causing unhealthy condemnation, what have you learned about how the kids (if you have kids) have been negatively affected by your divorce? What steps are you taking to help them recover from that?
Have you had time to recover emotionally from your failed marriage? Has there been a process of repentance and forgiveness? Tell me more about that.
Can I ask you if you’ve ever really given complete control of this part of your life over to God and His Lordship? Would you like help doing that?
I believe the most important relationship a person has in life is the one they have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me a little about what that means to you?
