- Are you aware of the effects of unforgiveness? Is there an area of unforgiveness that is blocking reconciliation?
- Have you repented of any wrongdoing, however small, and asked for forgiveness?
- Have you sought the help of a pastor or Christian counselor?
- Do you have children? If so, have you considered how their lives will be impacted if you don’t reconcile the marriage?
- Has one spouse been unfaithful and has the affair ended? What steps have been taken to recover from this affair?
- What is one thing you can do today to move back toward your spouse?
- Do you still believe that God can transform your marriage through the power of His Holy Spirit? (Ephesians 3:20-21)
- Do you pray with your spouse every day? Are you willing to start? Do you pray for your spouse every day?
- I believe that the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me about that?
