Has it always felt lonely in your marriage? Can you tell me about a time when you felt close? What was different then?
Have you taken time lately to share your true feelings with your spouse? Are you developing friendships with other couples?
Are you in a good local church?
Do you pray with your spouse every day?
What one simple thing could you personally do to increase the amount of time you as a couple spend together?
In what ways do you see your spouse trying to connect with you—even if it isn’t exactly what you want?
Do you and your spouse participate in some sport, hobby, or other shared activity together?
Do you cast your cares on God during times of extreme loneliness? (I Peter 5:7)
Do you ever try to “speak the truth in love” to your spouse (Ephesians 4:15) about your feelings of loneliness? How does that conversation usually turn out?
