- What do you believe captures your spouse’s attention instead of you?
- Are you connected to any other couples who can hold you accountable for growing in this area of marriage?
- Is there an area of bitterness from anything you are harboring which is causing the isolation?
- Would you consider voicing your concerns and giving your spouse another opportunity to seek forgiveness?
- Do you think your spouse is harboring bitterness for something you may have done? Are you open to seeking forgiveness?
- How do you think God wants you to handle bitterness or anger in marriage?
- Can you surrender to God’s plan even if it means you will need to take responsibility and confess first?
- What do you think could bring joy and completeness in your life even if your spouse refuses to draw near to you for now?
- What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?
