Are you willing to commit to a plan to forgive your spouse and allow God to heal you?
If your spouse refuses to return to your marriage, are you willing to trust God to meet all your needs—financial, physical, emotional and spiritual? I realize this is easier said than done, but are you at least willing to trust Him?
What do you believe God can do if you let Him have complete control of your life? What keeps you from taking that step?
Have you made every effort to listen to and understand your spouse? Do you see anything more that you can do to encourage your spouse to reunite with you?
What can you tell me about the current state of your marriage? Is there any sign of hope for a future?
What are the important turning points that have led to the current state of your marriage? Tell me about the approach you took during those critical times.
I believe the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with God through Jesus Christ. How do you feel about that statement? How would you describe your relationship with Jesus Christ?
What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?