- Were you a believer before you married?
- What was your courtship like? How did you come to marry?
- When did you first become aware of a lack of spiritual unity?
- How do the spiritual differences in your marriage make you feel?
- How do you think your spouse sees themselves – as a believer in Christ, an agnostic, an atheist, or some other philosophy?
- How has the spiritual mismatch affected your marriage in practical ways that make daily life difficult?
- How does your difference in beliefs affect your parenting?
- Is your spouse open to discussing areas of faith?
- Does your spouse ridicule you or try to pressure you not to actively practice your faith? If so, what does that look like?
- What do you believe are the most important things God has shown you in this process?
- Have you become disheartened or do you still have hope?
