- Who in your life knows you well enough and has permission to ask you tough questions about your integrity?
- Do you have godly friends or just those who condone your lifestyle?
- Do you have a mentor or a minister in your personal life who knows you well?
- Do you understand how Satan preys on people who are isolated and weak? (1 Peter 5:8)
- Do you admonish others to godliness? Are you willing and able to be admonished? (Proverbs 27:17)
- Are you taking temptation lightly or forgetting that every Christian is engaged in a spiritual battle? (Ephesians 6:11‐13)
- What has prevented you from developing close relationships with same‐sex friends who can hold you accountable?
- Are you afraid to build close friendships because it feels too vulnerable or you might be judged?
- Have you been hurt in the past by people you trusted? Are you open to God’s healing hand in that part of your life and heart? Can I pray for that?
- What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?