• Do you believe that you have entered into a season of mid-life questioning? What discoveries or emotions have surfaced?
  • In what way is your spouse involved in this process with you?
  • What expectations for your life have not worked out for you?
  • Do you have children—adult or still living at home? How have you seen God working in them?
  • What big decisions have you made recently and how did you make those decisions? What have been the results?
  • Where would you say you have been looking for meaning, satisfaction, and contentment?
  • How much time do you spend thinking about the past?
  • Are there any mistakes you’ve made in the past that you sense a need to revisit and perhaps make right? Any areas where you need to seek forgiveness from someone?
  • Do you realize and believe that God can even use your mistakes for His glory and for your good? (John 18:15-18,25-27; 21:15-19)
  • I believe the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me what that means in your life?