I am so sorry to hear about the difficulties you are going through. Will you please tell me more to help me understand?
What are the most common emotions that you’ve been experiencing through this?
Do you have friends or family nearby that you can talk to? Have they been helpful?
Have you heard things from well-meaning friends in the midst of suffering that have been painful? What were those things and why were they so painful to you?
Are there questions that have arisen in your heart in the midst of this experience that we can explore together?
Are there certain times of day, places, or circumstances where you find the hurt especially difficult?
It’s often said that God will use the difficult times in life to bring about good things. That may not be a comfort right now, but do you believe that might be true for you someday?
I know it’s hard to discuss sometimes, but where do you see God in all of this? Would you say He has met you in the midst of this or has He felt distant? Or a little of both?
Practicing thankfulness may seem unnatural during this difficult time, but can you see yourself looking beyond your pain and thanking God by faith for His presence?
How can I best come alongside you in love and carry this burden with you?
In what areas do you need comfort and encouragement the most?
Learning to live again is a process. Can you find a starting point?
Would you give me permission to be praying for you in the coming weeks/months?
Is there anything you need from me right now to help you get through another day?
