• How would you describe your current spiritual walk?  In what area(s) does it need strengthened?  How do you plan to make that happen?
  • How often are you attending church?  What kind of regular fellowship are you
    having with other Christians?
  • What are you doing to provide spiritual input for yourself?  How about spiritual
    training/input for your children?
  • Who is it that helps you stay accountable?
  • Have you talked to the Lord about your feelings regarding this deployment?  What concerns have you been able to share with your spouse?
  • How often do you pray together with your spouse?  As a family?
  • In what ways have you given control of your deployment over to God?  In what ways are you still fighting for control?
  • How would you describe the health of your marriage?  How would your spouse answer that question?
  • How committed are you to your marriage?  How would your spouse respond to that question?
  • What steps are you taking to ensure that you stay sexually pure during the time you are apart?
  • How do you plan to keep the lines of communication open while your spouse is deployed?
  • How do you plan to stay spiritually connected?
  • After you deploy, what network of friends can help your spouse and children cope with your absence?
  • How can I help you to prepare yourself and your family for this deployment?