• Do you have a God-centered home or a child-centered home?  If your home is child-centered, what steps can you take to make your child a valued member of your family rather than the center of it?
  • Is your child’s behavior accidental or in defiance against your authority? Are there patterns of rebellious behavior?
  • When you hear your child say things that are against Scripture, do you show him truth from the Bible?
  • Do you make the rules and consequences clear to the child before rebellious behavior happens?
  • When your child displays a sinful attitude, do you try to help him identify what is behind that desire?  What is he wanting or craving that might be leading to his attitude or frustration? (James 4:1-3)
  • Is honoring and obeying God a higher priority in your home than temporary happiness?  How do you model this?
  • Have you considered what the consequences would be of letting your child’s behavior go unchecked?