Tell me about your children. How old are they? What gender? What is unique about each of their personalities?
Which child is most like you? Which is most like their father?
What single‐word descriptor would you use for each of your children? Why did you choose that particular word?
Think back… What did you like about the way your mother treated you as a child? What would you have liked to change?
What have you learned so far as a mother? Are there things you’re especially good at? Things you’re weak at?
What is your plan for growing as a mother? Are you reading any good books right now?
Do you pray with your children regularly?
Are you involved in a local church for friendship and support?
Do you have other godly moms that you connect with regularly for encouragement and accountability?
How has having children changed the relationship you have with your husband?
How can I best help you right now as a mentor?
Did you have a good role model for motherhood growing up? What can you tell me about her?
Are you helping your children know how they can follow Christ?
What kind of legacy will you leave to your children and their children? What will they say you believed about motherhood?
Have you made sure your responsibilities as a mother are being met before pursuing career goals? Do you have a long‐term plan for success at home and not merely success outside the home or in the workplace?
What would your children say is most important to you in your life? What would they say are your values and priorities?
Do you place the same value on motherhood that God does, or does your view of motherhood come from culture or media?
What is your understanding of a mother’s role from your childhood?
Do you spend time with each of your children and look for ways to build into each child’s individual gifts and strengths?
Are you relying on God and His power to enable you to train your children and to love each one unconditionally?
Are you helping your children know how they can follow Christ?
Do you pray for and with your children regularly?
Do you have a network of other mothers for support? Do you know about MomLife Today?
Do you ever feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders as a mom? Do you take time to recharge yourself?
What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?
