• Tell me about your children. How old are they? What gender? What is unique about each of their personalities?
  • What have you learned so far as a parent? Are there things you’re especially good at? Things you’re weak at?
  • Which child is most like you? Which is most like your spouse?
  • What single-word descriptor would you use for each of your children? Why did you choose that particular word?
  • Think back… What did you like about the way your parents treated you as a child? What would you have liked to change?
  • How has having children changed your marriage relationship?
  • Who besides yourself and your spouse has the greatest impact on the development of your child’s character?
  • Are you involved in a local church for friendship and support?
  • Do you pray with your children regularly?
  • What type of people do you want your children to become?
  • Are you being careful to grow your children in God’s image? How are you going about doing that?
  • In what ways do you believe children benefit if they are raised to love God with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength?
  • What are your three greatest needs as a parent right now?
  • Are you and your spouse parenting as a team?
  • In what way does your spouse help make you a better parent?
  • What similarities do you see between how you are raising your children and how your parents raised you?
  • In what areas of parenting do you and your spouse agree? In what areas do you differ? How much of barrier does that create between you and your spouse? Is it a balance and strength or a source of conflict?
  • Have you examined yourself to see if there are any inconsistencies between what you say and how you live out your faith?
  • How often do you sit at your table and eat family meals together? What kind of conversations takes place when you do?
  • What do you think it would take to initiate a time of family worship/devotions that everyone could take part in?
  • In what ways are you teaching God’s principles to your children?
  • Do your children know what your boundaries are for them and why those particular boundaries are important?
  • Are you involved in a local Bible-believing church?
  • Do you share with your kids what you’re learning from God’s word?
  • What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?