• Do you pray regularly for your daughter? With her?
  • On a scale of one to ten (1=poor, 10=excellent) how would you rate your current relationship with your daughter(s)? How do you think she would rate your relationship with her?
  • What are the hopes and dreams you have for your daughter(s)?
  • What is the greatest fear you have for your daughter(s)?
  • What are your greatest concerns about parenting a daughter?
  • Dad, how are you modeling appropriate affection and respect for women to your daughter?
  • The most important relationship in your daughter’s life is the one she has with Jesus Christ. Has she verbalized her belief in Jesus as her Savior and how is that impacting her development?
  • Dad, how are you giving your daughter a good picture of the love of her Heavenly Father? Where could you improve?
  • Mom, how are you modeling godly female behavior? Where could you improve?
  • How are you regularly opening up your inner life to your daughter? (1 Thessalonians 2:8)
  • Is there anything you as a parent need to take responsibility for and offer an apology?
  • What are your expectations for your daughter? How have you clearly communicated these to her?
  • Are you and your spouse in agreement about values for your daughter? Have you discussed them with her?
  • How are you applauding more than external beauty? Are you celebrating her quiet and imperishable character?
  • At what age do you think it is important to start encouraging modesty in dress? How do you think you can do that at the ages your daughter(s) are now?
  • How are you able to encourage your spouse to build his/her relationship with your daughter(s)?
  • Are you frequently setting aside one-to-one time with your daughter? If not, how do you think you could rearrange your schedule to accommodate this?
  • Does she know she is absolutely secure in your love?
  • Does she know how uniquely and wonderfully she is made?
  • What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?