What ages are your children and how would you assess them spiritually right now? What have they been learning lately?
How do their lives reflect what they say they believe?
How often do you pray for/with your children? In what setting?
How involved are you in a local church where your children can grow?
In what ways do you believe children benefit if they are raised to love God with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength?
What type of people do you want your children to become? What specific character qualities would you like to teach them?
Do you schedule regular family time and devotionals? What does that look like from a practical standpoint?
Did your parents train you up spiritually? What did they do that you’d like to imitate as a parent now? What would you like to do better?
Are you sharing your personal spiritual growth and heart with your kids? (1 Thessalonians 2:8)
What books or other resources have you read to make you a better spiritual leader of your kids? Are you open to suggestions?
What’s one step you can take today to do a better job of training your children spiritually?
How can I as your mentor help to encourage you today?
What communication habits have you established with your kids?
How are you modeling godliness and integrity?
Do you spend regular time with the Savior personally? You can’t impart what you do not possess!
Do you realize that as a parent you are a disciple maker? Do you have a clear understanding of what a disciple is?
Are you being careful to grow your children in God’s image? How are you planning to go about doing that?
Are you and your spouse united in the discipleship plan for your kids? What is your plan?
What materials are you reading to improve your knowledge? Are you open to learning more?
Do you spend quantity time with your kids or bursts of quality time? Experience shows that opportunities for impacting kids come in the context of quantity time.
What outside influences are either reinforcing or counteracting your spiritual guidance (e.g. friends, grandparents, media)?
