How long has it been since your previous marriage ended? How did it end? Why did you decide to remarry?
Who were the people you turned to for support during the breakup of your first marriage? Was your current spouse one of those people?
What differences are there between your current relationship and your previous one? What similarities have you noticed?
What have you learned from your past marriage (e.g. about your needs, feelings, goals, the way you handle stress, the way you handle another person’s anger)?
In what ways do you believe you have grown to be a better spouse through what you have learned?
How are the qualities of commitment, trust, forgiveness, and hope exhibited in this marriage?
Did you anticipate remarriage being in some way a “cure” for the effects of divorce? What has surprised you?
I believe that the most important relationship in your life is the one you have with Jesus Christ. Can you tell me what you believe about that?
