- How did you find out about your spouse’s pornography use?
- How long has this been a problem?
- How are you dealing with the strong emotions you must be feeling since finding out about your spouse’s pornography use?
- What do you believe are the next steps in the process of healing and reconciliation?
- Have you openly expressed your hurts and disappointment with your spouse?
- Have you ever fully experienced for yourself the forgiveness that God offers through Jesus Christ?
- Are you willing to consider how your spouse might need the grace of God and your forgiveness as you move forward?
- Are you willing to find someone of the same gender who can offer support and encouragement to you?
- Has your spouse found someone to be accountable to?
- Are you willing to stand beside your spouse as God changes them, even if that change takes place gradually over time?
- What are some safeguards you can set up with your spouse?
- How can I as your mentor help and encourage you right now?
