“The Lord has proven His undying love for you by exposing your husband’s sexual sin, and He stands ready to help you get through this. While you may not feel good about what has happened, this event could bring about one of the most hopeful times of your life. The discovery of your husband’s secret sin has revealed the true state of your marital union, and now you have the opportunity to experience something real with him. Marriage doesn’t have to be a big fat lie … Whatever it’s been up until now, it doesn’t have to stay there.”