• Do you believe God’s power is sufficient for you in temptation?
  • What specific steps have you taken in the past to overcome this?
  • Are you willing to put safeguards in place to protect yourself from temptation?  Can we discuss what those safeguards might entail?  (e.g. Covenant Eyes online integrity software)
  • Do you still believe that God can give you the power to change, even if that change takes place gradually over time?
  • Do you understand God’s design for sexuality and how Satan seeks to twist and pervert what God created and called good?
  • Do you believe that God and His Word are your authority?
  • Do you have a redeemed relationship with God through Jesus Christ? If you aren’t sure, please read this article and let’s discuss: “Would You Like to Know God Personally?
  • Have you confessed your sin to God and asked for His forgiveness and for the power to change?
  • Have you been honest with your spouse about your struggles? If so how did those conversations turn out?
  • Do you feel like your spouse is an ally in this struggle against sin?
  • Are you truly really committed to changing this part of your life… whatever it takes?
  • What do you believe God’s view of you is during this struggle?  Tell me what you believe is true about God and your relationship to Him right now.
  • What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?