Do you believe God’s power is sufficient for you in temptation?
What specific steps have you taken in the past to overcome this?
Are you willing to put safeguards in place to protect yourself from temptation? Can we discuss what those safeguards might entail? (e.g. Covenant Eyes online integrity software)
Do you still believe that God can give you the power to change, even if that change takes place gradually over time?
Do you understand God’s design for sexuality and how Satan seeks to twist and pervert what God created and called good?
Do you believe that God and His Word are your authority?
Do you have a redeemed relationship with God through Jesus Christ? If you aren’t sure, please read this article and let’s discuss: “Would You Like to Know God Personally?“
Have you confessed your sin to God and asked for His forgiveness and for the power to change?
Have you been honest with your spouse about your struggles? If so how did those conversations turn out?
Do you feel like your spouse is an ally in this struggle against sin?
Are you truly really committed to changing this part of your life… whatever it takes?
What do you believe God’s view of you is during this struggle? Tell me what you believe is true about God and your relationship to Him right now.
What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?