Have you spoken with your pastor or a Christian counselor?
Have you repented and “turned away from” your sin?
Are you keeping secrets about your past from your spouse? If not, how did your spouse react when told them about your past?
What would forgiveness from your spouse look like?
Do you believe Christ’s sacrifice is enough for you? (1 John 2:2)
Are you setting appropriate boundaries in your life to avoid this in the future?
Do you have an ongoing relationship with Jesus Christ on a daily basis and do you understand how important this is to true freedom from guilt?
If you are a Christian, have you asked God to lift this burden? (Matthew 11:28-30)
Are you willing to let God rebuild your life now according to His plan?
Do you have past or current behaviors that make you feel guilty or embarrassed? Can we talk about how God wants you to get a fresh start in those areas and has provided a way to do that?
Do you know how to have God’s power for victory in this area?
Have you taken time to prayerfully consider how sexual impurity has affected your marriage relationship?
What might be one small step you could take today to move in the right direction and experience God’s power and joy?
