“The most important thing to a man in sex is how his wife enjoys his lovemaking. Real sexual fulfillment for a husband ultimately does not come from the pleasure he receives, but from the pleasure he senses you, his wife, receive from him! … On the other hand, a wife who gives in to her husband’s advances with an ‘I’ll let him have what he wants’ attitude deeply frustrates him. He will pick up on it easily, and it will stir up more insecurity than pleasure. He’ll come away feeling empty and having questions about himself.”