How would you describe the difference between genuine remorse and just being sorry for getting caught? (2 Corinthians 7:10)
If the tables were turned and your spouse had cheated on you, how long do you think it would take you to be able to trust again? How prepared are you to give your spouse significant time to recover from this news?
What do you think you can do to convince your spouse that you will now remain faithful to your marriage vows?
Do you have a relationship with Christ? Can you tell me about that?
Do you believe that God is able to cause “all things to work together for good” even in this difficulty? How are you finding Him in the midst of this difficult experience?
Have you sought the help of a wise pastor or counselor? Was that helpful?
Who are you willing to be accountable to so that you can protect your marriage in the future?
What is one step you can take in the right direction and how can I help you do that?