Before this experience, I thought our marriage was perfect even though I wasn’t submitting to myhusband due to health issues (anxiety, depression) but I also didn’t realize that my husband felt neglected by me. We argue over so much pettiness because we are both very stubborn and want to be leaders. Due to my military life style I know we are trained to be strict and do things right and on time without depending on anyone. I don’t give my husband enough credit for things he does but after this weekend, I know now to respect him and give him his right to LEAD our marriage. THank you FamilyLife, we will use the tools given…we have a long way to go!!!